I love being at home…are you an introvert or an extrovert? or both?

I will have to say I love being at home. Like they say, “it’s where all my things are!!“ When I was little, I loved playing outdoors. It was an escape, but the minute my mom would call me and say “we’re about to go somewhere,” I immediately wanted to crawl in a shell. Where most of cousins thrived in the spotlight, I absolutely despised, and the more it happened the more insecure and introverted I became. Once becoming an adult, I learned how to navigate that space and just simply say NO I won’t be participating in anything that disrupts my nervous system. The stronger I became in dealing with confidence the more I liked doing loo extroverted activities. I know cray-cray, but I felt like I needed to do it on my terms. So in this day and age, I’m little of both worlds and I like it that way.

Being a homebody is often the ultimate comfort zone for an introvert, offering a necessary sanctuary to recharge from the overstimulation of the outside world. However, this lifestyle is a double-edged sword, balancing deep personal fulfillment with the potential for isolation or stagnation. 

Here is a breakdown of the ups and downs of being a homebody introvert:

The Ups: Why We Love It

• Recharging the Energy Battery: For introverts, socializing is draining. Home is a sanctuary where the energy battery can be fully replenished, offering peace and reducing stress.
• Creative Freedom & Productivity:Without external distractions, homebodies often find they are more productive and can devote time to hobbies, reading, cooking, or creative projects.
• Control Over Environment: A homebody dictates the noise level, lighting, and social interaction. It allows for a comfortable, low-stimulation environment.
• Financial Savings & Safety: Staying in saves money on transport, entertainment, and dining out. It also reduces exposure to public safety hazards or crowded, chaotic situations.
• Deep Connections: Homebodies often prioritize quality over quantity in relationships, fostering deeper bonds with a few close friends or family members rather than many acquaintances